i have a question for you- IF your h became an okay guy to live with- but kept the ow- could you do it?
NO! That is exactly what H is asking me to do! Not even as a good guy, but this guy, who's not bad, just not good. AAAHH!
I said there is no way in hell I would ever except that he is still friends w/ea no matter how much try's to convince of anything. I said since it's been this long I guess you have made your choice, he jumped in quickly saying, no, I am not ''choosing'' her she's a friend.
To which I replied, I will never except you helping her if she was dying in the street. He said he knows the intensity of my stress about her, but he can't let her go, and I can't ever understand what it means to have a crazy, lost, friends for him to help in the most minut way once in a while.
So I proceded to say then I will be out of you life. That is your choice and I will be gone. He back tracked saying what if you leave and then I let her go, how will that help if your not here. I looked at him crossed eyed saying nothing.
Stalemate!
BTW I am not saying anything I am not willing to back up, he knows that as well!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
