I wouldn't say we live in the past, but it's hard to be in the present without feeling the pull of the past. If my H said to me, "honey, let's put the past behind us and move forward," I'd jump at the chance. He truly lives in the past though.
I must have been feeling good today because I absent mindedly called him Sweetheart! He either didn't notice or just ignored it.
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page