I wouldn't say we live in the past, but it's hard to be in the present without feeling the pull of the past. If my H said to me, "honey, let's put the past behind us and move forward," I'd jump at the chance. He truly lives in the past though.

I must have been feeling good today because I absent mindedly called him Sweetheart! He either didn't notice or just ignored it.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page