We all live in the past….we can’t help it. No matter how much my W says I live in the past, she is the one who brings up the past negatives too. She does not realize it when she does but all she spews is past anger and then says I can’t get out of the past. You and your H also do this with each other it seems. We all do. We went to Disney World in FLA last New Year’s, and in the spring when I came around after her begging etc, several things I reflected on and turned me around Wife, kids, therapist, God, the book After the Affair and I also looked through our Disney pics and came across a pic of my girls with Rafiki and it made me think of this brilliant scene: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZfGTL2PY3E
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
