UF ... That OR talk from her on changing you to suit her needs.

You have to remember that you explained to her about your job and your commitments to it.

She agreed. Full well knowing what she was getting into. That you have set work commitments that you honour.

So take that with a grain of salt. For it is very unfair for her to use this as an excuse for her actions.

Next time I would cut that conversation off with a reminder of this agreement she made back then.

Then drop the OR talk completely in a polite manor.

You really do not need to hear it at this time.

Just continue to lead with your actions.

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