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Yes... you'd think having a separate bedroom for each of the kids would be pretty basic, wouldn't you?

But also, who would have thought that teenage kids would have a problem with moving right in with their dad's OW - the one he'd been having a secret affair with for the last 3 years on and off - before he actually left home to go live in her apartment?

His version to the kids is that he's "Just started seeing someone", and that he lived with a male friend of his until quite recently.

They saw straight through this of course.

He's so upset and confused, i don't think he knows what he's doing and saying to whom any more.