While that's true, K, it's not likely he'll wake up and smell the coffee But it is likely he'll be annoyed that things aren't like he "dreamed" them up to be.
As Snodderly points out, you can feel compassion and empathy for them, like you would for anyone that is suffering from their choices, but you should under no circumstances waiver in your stance. He won't "go away" but he will try to annoy and control. It's just what they do..
And I agree. Owning my own problems and letting go of the rest - it truly is the best part of getting the gift of goodbye Very freeing and relaxing.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
But it is likely he'll be annoyed that things aren't like he "dreamed" them up to be. 