AS I think Mach touched a nerve. I believe 25 mlc also called you self absorved. I think people are seeing things about you that you don't like to hear. DBing is about honesty and change. On 9/20 you posted that you were having an EA? "

At this point I feel like whether we reconcile or whether I move on to another woman there is a bright future waiting for me"

On 9/10 you posted this^^^^. BD was in June. How can you profess love to your W of 20 years say and do the above things. Really?

If you trully want to save your M you need to dig deep friend.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden