OK My wife just opened up the conversation about how her new boyfriend is trying to move to our city so she can be closer to our daughter. She also asked me about how we are going to handle our finances. I tried to slide it off but couldn't. She kept pressuring for answers. What am I supposed to think of this? She says she still blames me for our ruined marriage and really accepts no blame for it.

I don't know guys but it seems to feel like its over. She seems so set to start a new life with this guy. Do you still think there is a chance she can change her mind? Is there any point in trying even? I guess this is one of those days that you talk about where things are not going so well.

I think it was revealed that I am not over her. I kept on telling her I respect your decision but she kept on wanting to remind me that it was my fault, as if to clear herself of any wrong doing. What now?


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017