I agree with SS, NLW..great job not being sucked into his spew. He seems to be in much confusion and anger. Anger that is life is not all flowers and rainbows after the decisions he has made!
Continue doing what you are doing. It works for YOU and you need to only do what works for you and your kids. You are not confused. You are not angry. And you are not flailing!
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home