He's Just Not That Into You - The Sequel

[mamabird]

Ok, need some advice on something that has come up.

We got invited to a friend's house on Xmas day. We normally go up to H's dad's on Xmas day. My proposal was that we'd stop by the friend's for 2 hours or so on the way up, then spend the rest of the afternoon at his dad's house.

H, of course is dead set against this plan.

If I insist on going, I'm not being respectful to his wishes. If I don't go, then I'm giving in once again.

Thoughts?? I'm very seriously considering going and having H meet me and the boys there - it's right on the way... but if it's just me and not the boys, it might be a little weird... I'm also afraid that the boys might change their mind at the last minute, and I'm not going to make a stand just to make a stand.