When you make these phone calls, keep them short and act as if he called YOU - and caught you "just as" George Clooney rang the doorbell, the bentley pulled up to take you to the airport for Italy or Alonzo-the-masseuse said he was ready for you.
Something like, chat chat chat - "oh! gotta run, been great hearing from you!"
XOS will wonder what in the H is going on, which is a good thing.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.