and she just called me acting all cordial about how this Saturday would work fine if I wanted to go out. Also making plans for our family a month from now. What do you call it when your wife tells you she wants a divorce (although doesn't do a darn thing to follow through with it), but doesn't tell anyone else that is her plan?


I'm 33, she's 32.
S4 S2
Married 6 years together 8
EA started Oct 2011
ILYBINILWY February 2012
EA turned PA (for sure)March 2012