Here is my 180 plan: I am going to approach my wife tonight. I am going to express that I agree with her, our Marriage is beyond repair. I am going to apologize for "stalking her". I am also going to say that I do not want to leave this relationship, not being friends. I am going to bring her a peace offering (Chia tea latte) and suggest that we try to be friends from now on, simply friends. I will add that we have a great daughter and I would really like to co-parent her the best we can. At that point, I am going to leave her alone. In a week or so, I might ask her to tag along on a friendly outing, which she will undoubtedly decline....a week or two later, I will try again.
Hopefully, by taking the guilt and pressure off of reconciling and the actual marriage itself, we can start to rebuild a friendship. I will keep it light. I will keep it healthy. I will keep it easy going. This is my plan....
