Is It really Worth it?

[Ready2Quit]

Interesting Weekend. I told H that I needed him to start doing his laundry. I told him in a nice way, I have two laundry baskets one with my clothes and one with his. Boy did he get mad. He said well I make dinner so if I only made my dinner would you not be mad at me (he made dinner once last week, after I told him what to make) THen he got mad at me for doing my S17 laundry. He asked me if S17 had asked me to do his laundry because that was hardly fair if I am doing his without being asked. (for one thing, he is 17, works, goes to school and plays sports,I don't think me doing his laundry on occassion is going to make or break anything. I was floored, he was getting upset because I don't want to do his laundry anymore, even through I still wash everything else (towels, sheets, whites, etc.) I still clean the house, do the grocery shopping, plan the meals. Couple of times a week he cooks sides to go with dinner, since he gets home from work 2 hours before me.

I kinda lost it when he told me he was not tired one night because he fell asleep when he got home from work. I don't get to fall asleep when I get home. I have to do laundry. I tried giving him a hug on Saturday and all I got was a one arm pat on the side, He was laying on the couch and I sat next to him and laid my head doen on his shoulder, he got up so fast, I thought the house was on fire!

On Sunday I got up and went to grocery, he was doing HIS laundry. When I got home he had put the sheets in the wash. I asked him if he had done that and he said yes, I thanked him. He also cleaned up from dinner on Sunday. THen this morning he sent me a text saying have a good day and I love you. He has not told me he loves me first in about 3 months, I would tell him first and he would say love you too. I am going nuts. Maybe that is the plan to drive me crazy and put me away somewhere!