In Legal Limbo - What is next?

[Grateful]

Without me bringing up the R, W has said numerous times that she is sorry, wishes things were different, etc. Finally ( I don't know why it took me so long), I asked her what she was sorry for. She never gave a specific answer, only "I am not perfect." Also, she then said (without asking from me) that she can now be who is really is. DBing has at least gotten her to open up to me. That is good, but our mediation is not this Friday but the next.