Andrew, I think you can risk being a bit more open with your feelings--just make sure the timing is right.

What do you mean, a loophole? The texting? Be clear that texting is a form of contact, so that's part of your boundary--it is, right?

Key things:
1. Convey you are ok with the ambiguity
2. Convey your boundaries
3. Show you can express your feelings and listen to hers.

(((())))