So sorry that you are dealing with your sitch, but you have come to a good place.
All of us on here want to save our Ms, at least initially. This place is about that...but more about saving yourself from this crisis life has thrown your way.
Saving your M is no guarantee...but saving yourself can be if you follow the DBing guidelines. And, in doing so, you will give your M the best possible chance to survive this.
My H too is involved w OW. We have 3 boys- 1 teenage. The WASs don't have ANY CLUE about how what they are doing effects the kids. They will in fact justify their actions so in seems as though it isn't effecting them at all. DENIAL.
The fact that your H is bouncing around from one OW to next is a clear indications that H has NO CLUE what he wants. HE is in a state of confusion.
Give him the space and time he needs, and in the meantime GAL for yourself, LOVE YOUR KIDS DOUBLE, and detach from your "new NOT improved" H.
Come here alot, it helps!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
