I don't blame you for feeling angry about your H wanting D13. Hold your ground regarding what YOU feel is best for your D.
I love this... "I said to just send any papers to my lawyers (well known ball breakers) and he replied "You already saw one?" I said that just because I love you fiercely does not mean I hid my head in the sand. I had to understand spousal and child support, patrimony etc."
Believe me if the time comes when I feel I need to protect myself I will consult a L so me & my boys don't end up w nothing-no money and no home to live in. (I don't believe in my heart that my H would do this, but then again, I didn't believe he could EVER have an A...and he has.)
Stay strong & stay focused at to your goals for you & the girls.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
