Just had email discussion with husband. He seems to think it would be better if he was with D13 while I do full time school in September. Granted she would be alone for 30 minutes in the morning and maybe one hour max at night, but she is responsible and I have friends and neighbours who will watch out for her. She can also go to a friend's after school on the days I am late because of night class.
H has been angling to get back into house, now he says D could go to school in MOntreal. And he is disappointed I won't consider alternatives. I said I am disappointed he will not consider alternatives like sharing the house, so we could both have some time there and share the space in MOntreal.
This all started with an email I sent to say I could cover my car payment etc this month (I am SAHM working part time). He said I am meeting with lawyer in January to figure out payments.
I said to just send any papers to my lawyers (well known ball breakers) and he replied "You already saw one?" I said that just because I love you fiercely does not mean I hid my head in the sand. I had to understand spousal and child support, patrimony etc.
He has moved on so quickly, but now wants to be a father? and only to one? Since the other is away at school starting September?
I have a lot of hurt and anger that he has moved on so quickly, but now wants to take everything I cherish as well-my role as mother, my home. Wasn't having my heart, my self esteem enough? Do you want everything??
