When my W's "extra-curricular activities" were discovered, it took about 4-6 weeks for the alien venom spewing monster to burst forth. I hope in your case it doesn't. From what you wrote of H's responses, I agree with you that he is thinking it'll all just somehow go away. Your actions are going to say MUCH more than any words. If I could go back in time I would have chosen my actions differently, and skipped the whole words thing altogether. Buckle your seat belt, but you know, I think you'll do just fine.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
