It has now been three weeks since we had any R talks. We are still living in the same house, though more as friends rather than Husband & Wife. We went out shopping together at the weekend, which was nice, although this was as friends. I know (for the sake of the children), she will leave things until after Christmas, but I am fully expecting her to talk about S in the New Year.

It is very hard not having a physical and emotional connection at the moment, but I am prepared to put up with it like this, whilst I try and get myself into a better mental place. I am making every effort to GAL, though it isn’t easy when you have devoted your life to your family and W.

I do believe I am ready for the day when she approaches me for a S.

This is all new to me and I am trying to take it day by day. Some days are better than others. How I long to tell her I still Love her!!

Keep Calm and Carry on!


Me48; W44
M20; T25
S17 & S15
Bomb (IDLYA) 27/10/12
Still living together