I'm thinking H is pissed but he's not mentioned it yet.
S17 will be 18 in April and he's wanted a tattoo for2 years, I told him it had to be something meaningful that he wouldn't regret down the road. So I went with him to a reputable shop to sign for him to have it done. He chose getting "my maiden name" on his inner bycep in a really nice cursive, he said its like in memory of Nana and Papa (my parents) who he adored. I think H found out threw his neice and he's made comments to the kids that he'd be upset if they ever got a tattoo without his consent.
S17 said if he ever said that to him he'd say "but you screwed our family up without our consent". Anyway I think H would see it as an insult to him as its my name not his.
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending