I was reading through your threads a little, and you are in great hands with Chatter..
He is leading you on your way. And you are doing well. You have a great mindset so far...
Remember this about a WA...
When they decide to leave, it is NOT an easy decision for them. They are in pain the same as the LBS. Sometimes THEY have to remind themselves why they made the choices that they did.
Sometimes it is to re-enforce their choices, other times it is just because they are right.
There will be times when the WA's choices become very hard for them to live. And they WILL lash out at you, to bait you into reverting back into the person that they walked away from.
Keep calm and cool during those times, and keep the talks focused and civil. Do not let them push those same old buttons on you.
Did you DB well ? Only you know that answer...
Did what she say to you make the back of your neck burn ? Was there some sting in her words ?
THOSE are the things that you should look at when you think about making changes for you.
Maybe it is something you are already looking at, maybe it is something that you want to look at, maybe it is something that you don't feel you should look at....
If her words stung you a bit, then you should be asking yourself WHY her words stung.
And then ask yourself, why you are like that ?
Why are you more driven by Money, than the personal relationships in your life ??
UF....
While her words might not be true to you, they are very true to her.
That is the truth she is living right now. That is what is real in her world.
Her decision is to leave the relationship, and it will continually be her decision....until she changes her mind...
Keep up the work as it pertains to you and your Son....
Fight for it, and foster it...
That is one relationship that will never fail you...
