Wendy, I hope that you are doing well. I'm glad you finally got an offer on your home. Christmas is only a few weeks away and I can't even imagine moving out in that short amount of time, but if anyone can do it, it will be you.
Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.