The house is for sale. So sad, Family is breaking.

[mamabird]

Happy birthday Floyd. Sorry it wasn't one of your best. My H didn't speak to me or look at me on my birthday either. We were separated at the time and I came home to stay with the boys. As soon as I walked in he ran down the stairs and out the door without saying a word. Weird. I'm sure he felt guilty and I'm sure your W does too.

I know that you are wondering why your W can't just come to her senses and get a grip. You are doing all of this work. She is doing nothing. And yet you are getting the short end of the stick and she's treating you like crap, and she just seems to get angrier and angrier. Keep doing your work and try to focus on YOU and not her. This is the advice I have been given and I think it's the only thing that can work with such a stubborn partner.