I am still just so confused. It is hard without answers. I feel like I have neglected my children in the last few months just trying to cope with my grief. Everybody I know wants me to move on and they don't even know about the OW.
I have chosen not to tell my children. I don't think even his friends or family are aware yet. He is very secretive about her. He never tells me anything about her. I am thankful at the moment about that.