You need to give a gift to yourself and stay away from her! I know what this feels like, I've been right there where you are but, remember...

People come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.

Sounds like she's a "reason" and you need to step back and figure some things out.

Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B