Well, I'm glad for your input. I didn't want him (or anyone else) to think it was a DIG. TO show him one big happy family without him and Josh in his place. But I DO appreciate his family seeking me out and keep me updated and asking about my kids. Watching theirs grow up too. So - I'll send it and if he chucks it - that's his choice.
Gineen - last Christmas was so special - first time we ever lived away from "home" and the first that anyone had to travel and sleepover. The pajama thing was a hoot and everyone took it in stride. It was perfect to make it into Christmas cards this year.
I will let you know if I hear anything back from him. Highly doubtful.