Separation at 17.5 months

[Sweetbriar]

Ad...I feel awful. Not only are you preparing and going through a tough night, but we didnt get to meet up:( I didnt hear back from you earlier and even checked early this morning..so I was busy all day and am just not getting on and see your message. I feel terrible that you went there...I wasnt going to go unless I knew for sure you were going. Please, lets make more definite plans and do them soon...

On another note, Im so sad for you this evening and am thinking of you. I have been there and I know how hard this is. I will tell you that it DOES get better with regards to the kids. In fact, I think my kids have handled it better than I have with H being gone. Yes, they are angry (as you have read in my posts) and they are refusing to go with dad right now, but they really are still in decent spirits most days. I agree with turtle about being the rock...and its a hard role to play when you are going through hell. I am there right now. You can do it...as Im sure you have already been doing it.

Please let us all know how things went tonight. I would love to get in touch through my hotmail account. Im mama2lexi. That way, we can actually meet up!

Thinking of you tonight and praying that things went better than you expected.

SB