K, will do my best FY. I did find this Bach Flower Essences liquids. I got the Chicory which helps control Jealousy and possessiveness, Larch for self esteem, and Willow for forgiving. They seem to work. I have felt very optimistic, haven't felt the jealousy and I finally told her I forgive her for the original online affair.
I hope with those to help curb the urges, my therapy, I am seeing someone from Simply Healed for an energy clearance, and reading/following the steps of "Change Your Life and Everyone In It" I will be able to concur my problems and show her this is for real