Well that's acceptable if it is her idea to have the discussions. She should be the one to follow up on them though, rather than you having expectations like a puppy waiting for table scraps.

Things can not get any worse you say?

Sure they can. As Cadet posts yo all of us newbs originally, we are given a gift, a gift of time. Use it wisely.

As far as her distancing from her children, you should check out my sitch and see how inconsistent my W is and has been with our S-9.

Don't fret over what the mutual friend says or thinks. It's hard, but ignore the comments.

After all, she "Currently" wants her freedom and to get away. Do you think that she would be saying flattering things about you in that frame of mind? Feelings can and do change. That's s fact. Her feelings now are different from when you guys first got married.

Ed


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012