I'm no expert (clearly) but if you want to save your marriage don't ask him about that just continue pretending like you're ok with not being together. If he misses you he'll be back even if it takes a while..
Me: 28 H: 40 Together: 10yrs Married: 6 yrs OW, ILYBNIL: june15/ 2011 I moved out/ ow moved in: nov 2nd/2011 H and ow no longer live together: may 1/2012
