Hi UF good for you for being proactive with work and calling the head about the car. :-) And making changes for YOU and for your S.

As for her saying you haven't changed, I think you are right about believing half of what they say.....

I think the WAS needs to keep looking for reasons as to why they left when they can't see them anymore. When they DO see change, they are afraid to believe it. We have to remember their mindset when they left...they most likely felt hopeless and truly felt nothing would change.

Keep changing for you. ((((( ))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home