Hi all, I'm relatively new to all this and really don't even now if this is the place for me. I'll give a quick rundown and you guys let me know. First, I am already divorced, and since this is DB, well, since its already happened is there any point?

Next, in a simplistic form, which I can expand on greatly if I am in the right place, what am I seeking?
-continue to learn what happened in my marriage
-continue to learn what was my part in at all
-continue to learn what I should be doing now for myself
-continue to get support
and yes, the thing many people want at this point:
-after I do what I need to do for myself, and without her, is it possible to reconcile now that we are divorced

I'll keep it at that for now until I get confirmation that I'm in the right place...

Thx for reading