I think my fight might be over. I have been working on my 180's and things seemed to be leveling off slightly, when the inevitble happened. My wife found out that I confronted the OM and had been speaking with her friends. Of course, things went from bad to worse and and now she has told me that she is DONE. She does not want me to contact her at all, unless it is in regards to our Daughter. I feared this might happen, and it did. However, I couldn't just let an affair take place without taking some sort of action. The OM still maintains that their relationship was purely innocent. I beleive him. However, they were forming a bond and I beleive my wife would have eventually wanted more. Unfortunately, a family member that I confided in (wifes brother) was the one who spilled the beans about me tracking her phone calls and confronting OM. At this point, I am not sure how to handle my situation. It is pretty grim. I don't know if I should try to continue my 180's in hopes that her anger will subside. Or, should I just move forward and ask her to leave the house and take away all financial support. Either way, I beleive she is probably not coming back. I am very distraught over this. I had such faith that we would eventually come back together.
