You didn't fail, you made a mistake. Life goes on.

I find that when I attach a meaning to someone else's actions I'm usually wrong because I don't know the truth.

It's hard to sit with the discomfort and fear of the unknown so I turn it outside myself, blame the other person for how I'm feeling.

Cause myself more pain...become the victim.

What can you do to get out of that cycle?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss