How did the two of you cohabitate then? I'm trying to visualize a going-as-dark-as-possible scenario... can't imagine my H putting up with it... no eggs served in the morning, no snacks and lunches served, no special health drink mixed up for him, no laundry done for him, no shopping done for him - that's what I'm supposed to do, right?
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.