Thanks T.

I'm hoping for some sign? Some something. See how he reacts? I largely think his leaving would only be a matter of time anyway. I just don't know if I can be the one who gives up on the family. And I'm sure that is how H would spin this. "mom made me leave".

But now, knowing beyond a shadow of a doubt, knowing some things he says to her about me, and she to him (I AM DISCUSSED!! Man that rankles my very soul.) I can't go on as we were. Just can't.

Very likely if I do the DB prescription he'll high tail it pdq.

I just don't know.

Thanks again for stopping in.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.