All this info on how badly divorce effects kids. All this info on how parents are supposed to put the kids first and not divorce unless there is abuse.
Man.
I don't know what to do. There isn't physical abuse, AT ALL. Verbal/emotional? To me I'd say definitely. Possibly some to the kids, especially the oldest?
But I did this before, this "for the kids sake". Did it for a long time.
Does that mean I should continue? Or does it mean I'm entitled to say "enough"?
And am I talking about divorce yet? I really just want separation so I don't have to play house anymore. I haven't really thought past that.
H should be home anytime between now and 12 hours from now.
Hope the answer comes to me soon.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
