I have been doing very well for a couple of weeks, thank you for asking. The roller coaster of emotions has really leveled off. I am less worried about my interactions with my w. And she seems to be noticing that. I say that because she has been talking to me a little more about things that aren't kid related. I am trying hard to just listen, and speak her LL when it seems appropriate.

I continue to try and detach as much as I can, without losing faith in the outcome that I want. Because my w left, there has been other things to worry about, rather than worry about what she is doing. It is those added aspects to my daily life that have helped me detach. It has gotten easier with time, and each day is better than the last.

Set goals for yourself and start driving towards them. Good luck!


Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
ILYBNILWY 5/12
Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on