A good father/mother would not introduce the child until at least 6 months to a year in. No sleep overs either... Lots of conversation and lots of being open about what the priority is in your life.
Keep that in mind if you do end up starting to date. Put that as one of your red flags if you date someone.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!