Thanks Tori. I really need the support and help. I appreciate it. I am so close to my kids and my family (4 siblings and mom) so I am very blessed. Just can't share this with them. They are all devastated by this and loved my wife but are very disappointed in her. They don't even know about the A. We are going to my brother's and his wife and 4 kids to cut down Christmas trees and celebrate my B-Day with them. This was my W's tradition that she started 19 years ago but she does not want to join us. She was talking about this day in April of this year and looking forward to it. Wow things change in a heartbeat.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.