"If my wife would have said no at any time I would have stopped." "I did not initiate the sex."
Actually that's not a contradiction. Look it up.
A contradiction is 'I did not initiate sex, but I told her I wanted to have sex" or something like that. What I was talking about way 25's inappropriate "rape" comparison. when I was talking about the if she said no, I would have stopped. That was the ONLY way that was a part of the conversation for that limited purpose.
My comment was in response to your statement that "I'm a guy after all" ...which I think is an immature excuse for misbehavior.
I compared it to what the men in the Middle East use as their excuse to rape women when the ankles or wrists show b/c they, the men, are 'men, after all" and cannot be expected to put the women's needs ahead of their own.
You can certainly detest the comparison, but don't lash out and accuse me of "projecting"...that is you TRYING to insult me, and it's a revealing tendency of yours.
WHY DON'T YOU EXPLAIN THE "I'M A GUY, AFTER ALL" COMMENT, SO I CAN GRASP THE MEANING OF IT?
Is this how you want to spend your time, 'working on you'?
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