Stuck between a hard place and the biggest rock.

[Big Bruce]

Hi,
To clarify the last episode:
At the last second of last Sunday's visit, as I was leaving, my wife proposed a deal : she would drop the D proceeding, in exchange of my dropping my counter-petition.

While her filing asked for 100% custody, money and D, my counter petition was only about having more time (50%) with my son. It opposed the D, and said nothing about the money she's asking.
Obviously, she's afraid of losing half of the time her son.

In the reaction of the moment I accepted the deal, because I was overjoyed of finally hearing the words " dropping the divorce". And W said we had to works things out between us.

After a week of advice and thinking, "working things between us" might have meant : working the visit schedules between us.

-->It doesn't matter because Wednesday I sent an email saying that I wouldn't give up on my son, and that I was continuing the court proceeding to obtain 50% time with him (shared custody).

So far, she hasn't dropped her filing as far as I know. She is acting "normal-nice" which is unusual.

I was wondering if I shoould "test" the waters and invite her, or what?
I know it takes time and all, but all the techniques work if the spouse IS around, which is not really the case with her allowing two visits per week.

B