TheUF - Changing gears - Dropping the rope?

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That is a good plan. Get it in writing to slowly move it up to 50% when your son is 3 to 4ish.

That way you can plan ahead with work as you will know all the days you will have son in your care.

That way your ex can adjust to this as well.

When you go to the therapist you go in with a plan to be with your son. Have it all mapped out and documented out.

I would recommend that you contact a family councillor to draft up a schedule ( Or let this current "therapist" know ahead so they can work up the plan as well ) I highly recommend that you do research on this. Research out the importance of a father in a son's life. Print out your findings and the references.

Therapists have a habit of going on feeling facts and not peer counselling so make sure you ready to back up what you want with facts and sources.

When this meeting occurs if this is not on the table. Fire the family "therapist" for not doing their job and get one that is more fair , less feeling and more factual.

If you even hear the words " a child is better with the mother...." End the meeting there as it will be a waste of time.