I presume he will go to live with his parents. As far as I know ow is still married and I don't know ow-h's policy on live in paramours. But I hadn't given a penny's worth of worry to him quite honestly. He has family.

I have none.

(Except my/our 4, but I hope NOT to turn to them for comfort.)

Thanks for the attention.....!

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.