So here it is, a couple of days later and I think I'm thinking better than I did. No matter how much this hurts again I will do my best at not getting in touch with him and working on my own life again! This 4 week fiasco was not in the plan and it put my efforts back, but I will not compromise anymore what I believe to be the best thing for me first, both of us second. Since he's so involved with this OW again, I have no choice but to let them be and go through their own course....again. She threw him out twice already in 6 months because of his attention to me, but I can't deny that it was his choice to return to her.

I appreciate the bit of advice I've received here and am thankful for the books with this good advice. I'll make the holidays ok for me and my family!

M-59
H-58
2 S, 1 D
2 Gr. Ch.
T 20 YRS
M 17 YRS
ILYBINILWY 4/21/12
Caught H and OW 5/25/12
H Left 6/5/12

"Do not regret growing older...It is a privilege denied to many."