Nice to mirror back.. Notice your H is still saying you are not repentant enough? I am glad you are ready to stand your ground, but that does not mean arguing or the cold shoulder. It just means that you are ready to advocate for you. I agree about the role model business as well. I often wonder if kids will think its okay to leave your family ( although I am certain they don't think this way, I do! Lol)

I know of have a lot of fear and in a way it is like starting this path all over again. We are here to walk with you.