Fixer, I wish you the very best. I will say that you no longer need to torture yourself. You are not giving in or giving her the divorce. She is asserting it. She is doing it. It's not that you didn't try or do everything you could. You didn't make a mistake, Fixer. This is her and her choices.
Remember that as you move forward.
Hold your head up high knowing your integrity is sound and your heart is big. There is a time to acknowledge what is, is. When you get there, remember that as well and that it is not failure to do so.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."