Finally approaching the starting line!

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I really believe the first step is letting go of our spouses. After that we will be able to start focusing on everything else that is important, including our spouses. It is the whole counterintuitive approach that helps us regain ourselves and gives us the best chance at reconciliation. It sure seems like it is a round peg in a square hole though. As long as we can stay away from the anger and bitterness we have a chance.